I think it needs a courage to love ourselves through people’s eyes.
It may need our strength to accept things our eyes cannot yet see, which other clearly can see through with clarity. On contrary, it may require our grace to trust our sight, which other refuse to accept instead of believing what they want to see but the truth.
Things other can see through, things we refuse to see – acknowledge them, then learn to accept them. Because they are part of you and you will love them no matter what.
Things you see but others wrongly accuse when they see you – trust them. Never let anyone impair your visual, but forgive those people. Understand that others may apply their own vision.
We do not deserve of being offended by others as well as by ourselves – but to love ourselves, unconditionally with courage.