He’s not as smart as he thinks :))


I am struck by this posting by a man. He began the posting coined the question:

“Apa Wanita emang Susah dibuat Bahagia”
ini analisanya (by the way, it should be “analisis” instead of “analisa”).
Jika dikatakan cantik dikira menggoda ,
jika dibilang jelek di sangka menghina ..
Bila dibilang lemah dia protes,
bila dibilang perkasa dia nangis .
Maunya emansipasi, tapi disuruh benerin genteng , nolak
(sambil ngomel masa disamakan dengan cowok)
Maunya emansipasi, tapi disuruh berdiri di bis malah cemberut
(sambil ngomel,Egois amat sih cowok ini tidak punya perasaan)
Jika di tanyakan siapa yang paling di banggakan, kebanyakan bilang Ibunya ,
tapi kenapa ya ….. lebih bangga jadi wanita karir,
padahal ibunya adalah ibu rumah tangga
Bila kesalahannya diingatkankan, mukanya merah..
bila di ajari mukanya merah,
bila di sanjung mukanya merah
jika marah mukanya merah,
kok sama semua ? bingung !!
Di tanya ya atau tidak, jawabnya diam;
ditanya tidak atau ya, jawabnya diam;
ditanya ya atau ya, jawabnya :diam,
ditanya tidak atau tidak, jawabnya ; diam,
ketika didiamkan malah marah
(repot kita disuruh jadi dukun yang bisa nebak jawabannya).
Di bilang ceriwis marah ,
dibilang berisik ngambek ,
dibilang banyak mulut tersinggung ,
tapi kalau dibilang S u p e l
wadow seneng banget…padahal sama saja maksudnya (are you sure? check it on Indonesia dictionary)
Dibilang gemuk engga senang
padahal maksud kita sehat gitu lho
dibilang kurus malah senang
padahal maksud kita “kenapa elho jadi begini !!!”
Itulah WANITA makin kita bingung makin senang DIA !

I am thinking, what is his problem anyway, not knowing his own nature – blinded by false consciousness about the myth of the perfect of male? Research proofs that men are not smarter than women but they sure think they are. The fact is the male ego is often larger than his actual IQ. The scholars call this the conundrum: the male hubris. I am teased by posting this reply:
instead of saying “he’s oppressive” they’ll say “he’s protective”
instead of complain “he demeans my intelligence” they’ll say “he’s smart”.
instead of saying “he’s obsessed with work” they’ll say “he’s hard-working”.
instead of saying “he’s an ego-monster” they’ll say “he’s confident”

And these sayings are damn true:

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